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either of personal items, or of family members, and friends..
Hopefully some of these thoughts will help you to adjust to your loss, no matter what your loss may be..
.....in memoriam
eath is nothing at all..I have only slipped away into the next room I am I, and you are you Whatever we were to each other, that we still are Call me by my old familiar name; speak to me in the easy way which you always used Put no difference in your tone, wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together Let my name be ever the household word that it always was Let it be spoken without effect without the trace of a shadow on it Life means all that it ever meant It is the same as it ever was; there is unbroken continuity Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am waiting for you, for an interval somewhere very near, just round the corner.. .........All is well Henry Scott Holland-1847-1918 Canon of St. Pauls Cathedral London, England |
 ~Memory of a child~ ...by Jen Not a day goes by that I don't think of you every minute of every day... You're always in every step that I make every move that I make everything that I do- you never leave my mind and I hope that you feel the same way to.. |
from Cathy...If I could have a lifetime wish A dream that would come true; I'd pray to God with all my heart For yesterday and you. A thousand words won't bring you back I know, because I've tried; And neither will a thousand tears I know, because I've cried. You've left behind my broken heart And happy memories too; I never wanted memories I only wanted you. | ||||||
~a letter to mom, from Sue~Mom, I guess you can call this an open letter~ ~you would. I never got to say "good bye". It's killing me. You were my best friend. What more can I say? Man, you were the most beautiful person I have ever known. WHY, is what I can't fathom. Yeah, we had our ups and downs.... what mom and daughter wouldn't? I look at where I am, right now.. Mom, I miss you. Sometimes I just do NOT know what to do! You always had the "words of wisdom". Now I sit and cry.It's all up to me. Man. Mom, I sure miss you. Sometimes I hurt so bad, that my throat hurts. I don't know if this makes sense. Where ARE you? Do I know? You cannot be dead. Man, how many years has it been? Are you happy? Are you at peace? Do you still hurt? Mom..I NEED an answer. Tell me you're OK. I can't keep crying. I tried SO hard to be there. Death is, from what I am told, to bring peace to the dying. The most difficult part of death .. is left to the living. I went through an entire lifetime with you, Mom. I still cannot face life without you. Lady...you are my everything. All My Love to You, Sue |
...to a loved oneIt was a sudden parting, Too bitter to forget, Those who loved you dearly, Are the ones who cant forget. - + - We often sit and think of you, And think of how you died, To think we could not say goodbye, Before you closed your eyes. - + - Your life was one of kindly deeds, A helping hand for others needs, Sincere and true in heart and mind, Beautiful memories left behind. - + - The blow was hard, the shock severe, To part with one we loved so dear, Our loss is great, we'll not complain, But trust in god too meet again. - + - Two tired eyes are sleeping, Two willing hands are still, The one who worked so hard for us, Is resting at gods will. - + - Our family chain is broken, Nothing seems the same, But as god calls one by one, The links will join again. |
to Mandy... You were always there. You were my sister My rock to lean on-Now your gone. I feel so alone,no one to talk to, no one to listen, no one to laugh or cry with We had over 40 years as sisters but it wasnt long enough. We went through so much together, but in the end you did it alone. You waited until I left the room to quietly slip away, no fuss or bother. I had the start and middle of your life but I missed the end. I feel I let you down-I'm sorry I left the room I wish I had stayed.. but, you being you, did it the way you knew would be best.. not just for me but for you too. You slipped away unnoticed in death like in life no fuss, no bother to anyone just gone I hope you find the peace you always looked for in life.. that you find your daughter, Melissa who went before you, and that all's well with you I still miss you- I always will.. I send you all my love, now as always.. your loving sister, paula
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|  My friend.. I could use the phone I need to talk But can't, so I go for a walk. Take my hand I'll try to help you understand So much needs to be said But too late, my sister's dead. I can only hope That we can all cope With the fear That she is no longer near. Our eyes will only swell if we go on and dwell. That mom's sweet daughter only found comfort in the water. But now she's out of pain She no longer has to strain. She's in God's hands With no more demands. Nothing can be that wrong When your love is so strong. God's love was meant that is why she was heaven sent. But I must ask why? When do we say good bye? To my loving sis who I really miss Patti Kay 
Weep not for me .... I am not dead ... With no more pain to be bled, I am alive and free... Sing to me, Laugh and be glad... Do not be sad, And weep not for me. Weep not for me, But be happy I am free... Shed no tears, Have no fears, I am with the Lord and singing his praise... So weep not for me, And remember me... I am alive again Just as I was then, I am with the Lord and singing his praise. Dedicated to Uncle Ron, You will always be in my heart, and thank you for saving my life when I was young. Love your niece, Lynn  If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I would walk right up to Heaven and bring you home again. Your always in my heart, and I miss you... author unknown |
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